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Meet Heather

Heather Declavasio, The Wise Planner

As a Certified Wedding Planner since 2009, I have always loved to help create a bride's most memorable day...and it is true what they say...I LIVE for planning, organizing and problem-solving. 

I know that planning a wedding can be incredibly stressful and overwhelming, not to mention expensive, so that is why I am here for my brides (well virtually that is), to coach and guide them every step of the way allowing them to create the wedding they truly crave and desire. 

I created Wisdom Weddings to really help couples understand the world of weddings. It can be an overwhelming world when it is your first time going through it. I help couples navigate around seeing the REAL in wedding planning, it's not always glitz and glamour, but together we will create your special day. I am on your side, I will be honest with you and I will ensure your vision will come to life.  

Do I Need A Wedding Planner?

A professional planner is essential for your big day. Whether you're getting married in a year, or it's just around the corner, a great planner can help you with all the details that you can (and can't) see. They will help you to create a solid plan, a budget that works and find solutions to any problems that arise so you feel sure, supported and stress-free during this exciting time in your life. 

As virtual planners, we offer all this support right to the comfort of your own home. We offer services to help you plan without the hassle of leaving your house. We understand couples are busy with other parts of their lives and this is why we have come up with the solution of Virtual Planning.  

After years of in-person planning with brides who have incredible vision for their big day and weddings that ranged from intimate to enormous, I stepped up my planning game and took things online! I have eliminated at the need for an in-person planner (and the cost of one too). Virtual Planning has taken more of the stress out of the process and my brides (and I) find that strategic and supportive 1-on-1 coaching calls are the best way to ensure nothing is missed. 

Want to Know More?

Learn more about our virtual planning services and book your free 45-Minute Wise Wedding Session to see what is it all about. 

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What Is Virtual Planning?

Wedding planners are a MUST when the details can make or break the most important day of your life..but it can come with hefty price. So if you are an independent bride with your own vision but are need in some professional guidance to plan for perfection, you will LOVE our Virtual Planning Packages! Each package allows unlimited access to a Certified Wedding Planner with 1-on-1 coaching support. Enjoy this service from the comforts of your own home. We will guide you on how to plan your wedding with our efficient ways and will teach you how to plan your beautifully and very detailed wedding.

Your Package Includes

Scheduled Monthly One Hour Appointments through Skype

2 Meetings in First & Last Months of Planning

Client Access to Online Wedding Planning Portal 

Unlimited Email Access to Wedding Planner

Budgeting Design & Creation 

Monthly Planning Timeline & Checklists

Wedding Day Itinerary Design & Creation

Personalized Minutes for Questions or Concerns

Printable Forms & Worksheets

Access to Wisdom Weddings Facebook Group

Plus More...

Ready to Say "I Do"

Choose Your Package

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Full Wisdom 

For the bride or couples who need help every step of the way. Guidance given from start to finish. 

*Perfect for 12 Months or More from Wedding Day

Insight Wisdom


Designed for those half way or more through their planning feeling lost, or stuck. Receive help so you recap, get back on track and head to the alter feeling stress free.

*Perfect for 6-8 Months or Less from Wedding Day

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Last Minute Wisdom

 A perfect resource to double check all your wedding plans and finalize your last minute details. Feel prepared for your Wedding Day.

*Perfect for 1 Month or Less from Wedding Day

Cold Feet? 

Hourly Wisdom

              Questions? Concerns? Need to Vent?              You bring the problem, we'll find a solution.

*Perfect for Whenever

Have Questions?

Book Your 45 Minute Wise Wedding Session Now!

10% Off A La Carte Until November 30, 2017

A La Carte

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Budget Consult/Design   $169



Looking for insight with your wedding budget? Not sure how much weddings cost? Are you confused about how much to spend on each vendor?  Our Budgeting Consult is right for you. Allow us to ease your worries! We will talk to you about your wedding budget, work with you giving you tips of how and where to save money, and help you determine your realistic budget!

Package Includes
1 Hour Skype Consultation                           Access to Certified Wedding Planner
Client Access Online Budgeting Tool 

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Day of Itinerary Creation $ 179



You have gathered the pieces for your event, you know who you have hired but now you need to put your plan together and inform wedding party, vendors and family of how you envision your day playing out! Allow us to create that with you. It can be overwhelming to think of your wedding day minute by minute, so we can alleviate all the stress while working with you. 

Package Includes
1 Hour Skype Consultation with a Certified Wedding Planner
Client Access for Itinerary Draft and Review Session (1 Hour)
Customized Printable Full Wedding Day Itinerary
Customized Printable Vendor Contacts Information Form
Customized Printable Vendor Itinerary

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Vendor Research &





We know how overwhelming it can be to research and narrow down vendors, Wisdom Weddings will complete the research for you and share with you the options in a clear and stress free way! We will sift through the wedding world for you and present our final findings to you so that you can spend less time being overwhelmed and more time for other important wedding tasks! Your wedding vendors are amazing people who help create your perfect wedding so ensuring you pick the right one is key!  

Package Includes
Skype or In Person Consultation with Certified Wedding Planner
Research of One Vendor Category
3 Final Recommendations via Skype or In Person Meeting

***Please note this is only for local couples from the Hamilton, Burlington, Niagara, Ontario Areas

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Venue Site Tour



There are so many beautiful venues in the Hamilton, Burlington and Niagara region! Wisdom Weddings will help you to find your special venue. We will discuss with you your vision of your venue, your wants and needs and then we take it from there!  Wisdom Weddings will do a thorough research, narrow it down to 3 Venues and sit down with your discuss our findings. Once you are happy and ready to view, we choose a date and   Wisdom Weddings confirms the appointments.  

Package Includes
In Person Consultation with a Certified Wedding Planner
Full Research and 3 Venue Recommendations
Arranging Venue Site Appointments
Planned Itinerary for Efficient and Timely Viewing
Certified Planner to Accompany On Site Visits
Length Approximately 3-4 Hours

***Please note this is only for local couples from the Hamilton, Burlington, Niagara, Ontario Areas

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